Are You Choosing to Be a Doctor or a Scientist?

There appears to be a tremendous set of expectations viasian parents put on their children. There's an insane admirable amount of respect for pleasing their parents and wanting their parents to be happy, which is so beautiful. But like you said, it could be really stifling in the way that if kids want to do something outside that lane,. Where does the self actualization come from? Does it come from like that thread in your life, where you'd have this piety to your parents? Or is it from doing something just self generative, that's coming from within?"