"It's better to have this slightly stilted like, okay, now I'm going to paraphrase what I hear you saying and then you're going to tell me whether I got it right," she says. "Even if it doesn't become fluent, honestly, my collaborator, James Gross at Stanford, we talk every week."
How well do you know the people in your life, really? Are you stuck having surface-level conversations? And should we all be in couples therapy?