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Western Parents Don't Know How to Bring Up Their Children

Intelligence Squared

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Do You Want Happiness or Success?

Asian parenting tends to give children too little choice, i think western parents tend to give them too much. I remember once lulu came home from school with a bad math test. She was about seven years old, and she came home and announced, i hate math. My husband would say, don't worry, lulu. You don't need to be good at math. You can be good at something else. Second, on the point of choice and freedom. Whereas in am ria, i think there's a tendency to romanticize creativity. Just give your kid a saxophone and amazing jaz will pop out. And instead of being complaisant, we should try to

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