i think the joyf knowing the warmth is that you don't have to perform, and you cal let down your guard. A one of the things that i've noticed, and i pride myself on being pretty good at, is that i have a lot of friends who am close with that just aren't good at reaching out. It's likeut for a bunch of friends, and especially frends that i'veknown for a long time. I never regret reaching out to someone.