How to Talk to Someone Who Was Harmed

"I have the conversation again every single time. Someone talks about it or I talk about it," she says of her struggle with coming out as an ED. "It's so interesting because in most of the ways that we hold these processes we're really looking for what is the thing that's going to make it right, you know?" The poem doesn't have the word brave space in it but like the naming of it is something that you did and you added to it,. She writes: "Some people find the lake and some people stumble into the quicksand."