The Dangers of Defensiveness

I want to sell people on the idea, particularly people prone to defensiveness in a relationship from negative feedback. It is good people can be bad partners. I didn't associate how just fundamentally thought I was being mistreated truly in that moment. And if I'd thought of marriage and relationships as something that I needed to develop expertise and mastery about. This was nobody's fault. This was my responsibility. But I do think we've raised generations of people without some of the building block knowledge necessary to relate effectively with others.