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Prolapsed anuses, porn production, and purpose—Vic Lagina shares wild behind-the-scenes stories from 20 years with Brazzers and what he’s learned about fantasy, consent, and real human connection.

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📈 STATS | 51 straight white Jewish man, 20-year veteran of the adult film industry, author, originally from Philadelphia, based in Las Vegas.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 From Brazzers to book author and the porn industry up close

02:00 Anal adventures, prolapses, and advice for the anally curious

04:43 Fantasy fulfillment, humor, and swimming-pool-sized loads

07:18 Dating while directing, open relationships, and discovering boundaries

09:22 Filming desire, consent culture, and ad-driven chaos on set

13:22 A day in the life of a porn shoot: scripts, stamina, and choreography

16:01 When porn turned to clickbait and what he finds genuinely sexy

19:28 Early sex ed, Playboy beginnings, and learning about real connection

23:25 Communication, masturbation, and being a better lover

25:19 Porn as fantasy and education + hopes for ethical, erotic learning

28:05 Sex for camera, sex for pleasure, and the unsung behind-the-scenes heroes

31:13 From film school to porn: debts, risk, and finding stability

35:09 Curiosity, creative chaos, and staying professional

41:08 Hygiene lessons, trauma on set, and darkness in the industry

43:55 Embracing pleasure, play, and flying your freak flag proudly

46:09 Lessons from dominatrix lovers

48:47 Favorite desert shoots, creative risks, and cinematic sex scenes

50:57 Real sex ed tips: oral skills, communication, and compassion

56:01 Pornhub exposé, ethics, and choosing integrity over profit

59:20 Life after porn, new creative paths, and spreading kindness

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