What's the Core Level of Kindness, Ampathy, Kindness and Selflessness?

"If i could just get him to be a kind, selfless person, then we'll be ok," she says of her son. "That's why i always think, i'm like, you know, if nothing else, i just want him to be kind and pathetic." She adds that there are two level riters for raising children: kindness and ampathy. The other skill is being able to walk one step up the letter ladder of abstraction in your own body and mind - even as a young child.