
Managing Problem Relationships
The Gathering Room Podcast
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Integrity in Therapy - You Can Use It on a Two Year Old
Just mirroring someone is really powerful at making them feel herd. And that's another thing he says, you put full attention on the other person. Integrity, again, and i've learned that all it takes to get someone to feel really seen as if you just mirror. So you're a horrible person. You're the worst person i've ever known. Yes, you were bad to me. Oh, i'm sorry, bad to you. After a while, they start to run out of steam, because their brain is now switching to feeling trust and to domination. They feel like they're in charge. There's nothing deceitful about it. It's ampathy in action. But
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