The Importance of Boundaries

I think where the boundaries teaching has been misunderstood is that boundaries enable you to be a selfish jerk. I realized on the inside I was wishing I was sick or injured. So I had a legitimate reason to say no. It's one thing to be powerful, but it's another thing to bePowerful with humility and learning that just because I can say no doesn't mean I have to says no. And actually learning to give out if you're not feeling well isn't an easy task.