High expectations. The fifth item on your list would also apply to the parents that you'd want to encourage the parents to aim high and assume that they will rise just like their kids will. If you look in the education childhood longitudinal survey. Something like 30% of black families think the kids are going to get a PhD when they're in kindergarten. For blacks we have been for whites. I don't know what to make of that but I'm just saying it's not obvious to me at all that they're different preferences or views or expectations or goals there's a different set of constraints.

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