The brain overlea references towards our negative experiences. Two things tend to stand out for people in memory. The first is affect and the second is proximity. When you have a very emotionally affecting experience, it tends to stick in your memory. It's the negative things that happen directly to us, and then our behaviors flow from there. I think this ultimately gets back to defenses, where the brain is trying to protect you against painful experiences. And the bet that it is making is that by overestimating, or kind of like oversticking to how bad some past things were, it can protect you from future painful things. That's what kind of the root cause of some of these things
Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson open up the mailbag to explore a variety of listener questions. They talk about what causes our brains to become attached to unwanted habits, how to know which of your thoughts are worth listening to, and the pros and cons of saying "kind of." They then consider how to improve sibling relationships, and what to do with the positive emotions we experience during meditation.
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Key Topics:
0:00: Introduction
1:45: Why do our brains keep us stuck on unwanted patterns or ways of thinking?
10:45: Three kinds of craving and the machinery of becoming
13:50: Why do we say “kind of” all the time?
25:50: How do you know which of your thoughts are worth listening to?
31:15: How do you improve a sibling relationship?
40:35: What do you do with positive emotions during meditation?
48:40: Recap
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