How Can We Lose Closed Doors?

I think the idea of closed doors, right? I'm thinking about myself, like when I used to stay previously in a flat, and you shouldn't. But for five whole years, I've never exchanged a single sentence to him. So violence is not just someone just decides to be violent. It takes time. And sometimes it's a relationship that people have in the communities that we are in. If I know the person, then I could start to understand that maybe you are being affected by something at home.