Are You Telling Yourself That Your Mom Is Not Taking Things Personally?

You're not going to be able to change your mom. All you can do is sort of change your response to that, which is to remind yourself it's not your job to make your mom happy all the time. And again, like there are definitely emotionally manipulative and immature parents out there. I am one now. You should win the temple. When Temple turns 18, you should give her the book, the adult children of emotionally immature parents as a gift. Just read this and I'm sorry. It will save us. Like here's inner healing as much as possible, but here's just resources and like a general apology.