The community itself can become toxic. We've seen this in our own community, where sometimes if you go to our sub redit, it's a pretty hopeless place. So we've a lot of people coming for help, and we have lot of peoplewhore trying to help them. As this starts to happen in a community, it actually worsens our mental health and distorts reality even more. If you want simple evidence that this statement is not true, i want you to just look at a park where there are people who have kids,. or go to a grocery store, and look at how attractive are the parents.