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The Science of Making and Keeping Friends | Robin Dunbar

10% Happier with Dan Harris

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Psychology

I think that it takes us about 25 years to learn the social skills needed to handle this complex social world. This probably explains why teenagers struggle so much with their relationships because they're cranking out every detail. Once you're adult, of course, we never become completely skilled but we're sufficiently skilled that we can kind of automate a lot of the detail and cope much better with the complexities and problems in the world. You mentioned before getting interested in friends and friendship he didn't start your academic career to look at this subject you kind of got there in a roundabout way. Oh, I'm very roundabout actually I started out attempting to be a philosopher which is I thought the only interesting

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