i'm still hearing that there's like one foot in two different lives, you know? And i think theres needs to be some kind of like, internal resolution about the life that you want. I mean, clearly he's, you played the ultimate ace cardi don so no one caun ever think you're dad in it. But when there's the losers and the jocks, and you're half way between those two, you know, you can't, i don't know, ta me.