The Things That Don't Affect Our Relationships

People often overlook certain things because the person is saying all the right things, or things feel really good and easy right now. Things that don't bother us when we're in those early stages of dating do show themselves when we're actually considering a medium to long term relationship. When we can recognize what it is that we have dismissed and ignore about ourselves,. Then we can start to see, ah, ok, this is why i'm feeling in a bit of a tangle right now.