The Lost Self

You feel the need to be on top of all the details and global trends so you can control things better. This is a sure sign that you have lost a sense of your priorities, which facts are more important than others. What you need is a mental filtering system based on a scale of priorities and your long-term goals. Your task is to let go of the rigidity that takes hold of you as you over-identify with the expected gender role. Power lies in exploring that middle range between the masculine and the feminine - playing against people's expectations. Return to the harder or softer sides of your character that you've lost or oppressed.