How to Be Assertive on a First Date

A lot of guys think, oh, the Mr. Nice guy thing to do on a first date is ask her, where do you want to go? We want to go. And that's not being kind, particularly a hardworking college student woman or professional woman. A guy who can be assertive and understands her need in that moment is not to just make yet another goddamn choice at the end of the day. Especially she doesn't really care that much.