Sally Kohn: I came up with these questions the hard way, because i kept making mistakes about my calendar. She says we need to have white space for ourselves if we are going to actually be long term thinkers. Says saying no and creating that white space is really an essential first ingredient in the long game. Told a story about this heart rending decision where she got invited to give a speech in the caribean by a friend but realized it just would have been too much too hard.