How to Use Limit Setting Processes to Help Your Child Learn to Choose

The ACT process is extremely valuable. It acknowledges the child's feeling first, you communicate the neutral limit and then you target an alternative. The neutral limit is always the explanation for the choice. So if a child is struggling, if there's something that needs to get done, if there’s an expectation, the why is the limit setting process? You really, Clay, I'm going to go back to your scenario. We just have to do this one thing first.