Are You Still Seeing Negative Body Language?

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There's a growing evidence that you can do something that is called mirroring, which would be to try to also move towards the body language that is more positive and they'll kind of follow you. One other thing I would say when this gets into NLP and things that are a little bit less science based or, you know, they're a little bit more controversial,. but there definitely is agrowing evidence that you could use these techniques in your daily life.

Andres Lares reveals the surprising psychology behind decision-making and shares a four-step process to influence others.

— YOU’LL LEARN —

1) How to tap into the hidden driver behind most decisions

2) The critical steps that set you up for greater influence

3) What to say when you’re losing the other person

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— ABOUT ANDRES —

Andres Lares has been the Managing Partner and CEO of Shapiro Negotiations Institute since 2017. Prior to this role, Andres served various roles including Chief Innovation Officer where he led the company's development of technology and content. For over a decade Andres has advised professional sports teams in the NBA, NFL, MLB, and NHL on contract negotiations, trades, and other critical negotiations. He has been featured in publications including HBR, Forbes, CNBC, Entrepreneur, and Sports Business Journal. Andres guest lectures at conferences and institutions around the world and teaches a course on negotiations at Johns Hopkins University.

• Book: Persuade: The 4-Step Process to Influence People and Decisions

• Website: ShapiroNegotiations.com

— RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —

• Study: “The Mindlessness of Ostensibly Thoughtful Action: The Role of ‘Placebic’ Information in Interpersonal Interaction“ by Ellen Langer, Arthur Blank, and Benzion Chanowitz

• Book: "Thinking, Fast and Slow" by Daniel Kahneman

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