
Melanie Bracewell - Untangling a Toxic Relationship
The Imperfects
Handling Family Toxicity and Cutting Ties
Mel recounts hurtful online attacks from a cousin, choosing boundaries, and prioritizing personal protection over family obligation.
Have you ever dated someone you knew, logically, was a bad idea? A puppeteer twenty years your senior, perhaps?
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Melanie Bracewell has, and she joins us in the Vulnerabilitea House to answer the question, āwho do you go to advice for? Why?ā (spoiler: itās not her puppeteer ex-boyfriend).
Unpacking the disarming realisation that all of our parents were once our age, Mel talks to the guys about making useful mistakes in your twenties, finding a litmus for what loves looks and feels like, and how to make friends with people as an adult (who arenāt already on your netball team).
Mel bonds with Hugh about the realities of an ADHD brain and the fallacy of thinking you are super organised for something, and most importantly, the burst of self-compassion that can come from a diagnosis.
Mel, weāll be your side-by-side friend.
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š«Other imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode
- Matt Okine - Comedy & Tragedy - http://bit.ly/4q5LW8f
- Hannah Ferguson - Outspoken but Not Broken - http://bit.ly/4qcCHDy
- Campbell āStruthlessā Walker - Withdrawing with Drawing - http://bit.ly/4q8MHgO
šŗThings to watch
- Cheap Seats - http://bit.ly/3KNoEnA
- Melās YouTube Special āForget Me Notā - http://bit.ly/4hbCQ63
š»Things to check out
- Meladoodle (Melās Tumblr blog) - http://bit.ly/4mXO1AF
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- Melās Live Tour āA Little Treatā - http://bit.ly/46ZoZuU
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