The more time you spend with someone, the more fantasies are going to build in your head. So i'm not saying you have to break up with them right away. You don't have to pull it off like a bandate,. although you can absolutely do that. But this is where i just want you to understand that the more your sensory organs are populated by this person, the more your thoughts will be populated by it. And then we end up doing something that we're kind of ashamed of, and we're like, waigt. This not working. That's how we get here."