What Do You Find Comfortable in Your Representations of Spectacular Aliens?

Our next question is from alicia gorenson, who asks what do we find comfortable in our representations of fictional aliens. What strengths and flaws do we like to see represented? For human centric people, which is pretty much all of us, we want aliens who make us feel good about being human,. And i think that it's just very, its comforting and reassuring to have aliens who kind of don't challenge our own ideas about ourselves too much.