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#335 - Nicole Arbour - Dating, Haters & Mental Health

Modern Wisdom

CHAPTER

The Inner Citadel

The Mimi Mimi society is the, you have to care about who I sleep with. Why do you think that people have bothered about that now? Give me a thesis on that. My thesis is it's easier to complain that you're not getting attention for things that aren't attention worthy than to make something that deserves attention. The inner citadel is a way of looking at the world where when you fail to win a game, you decide to claim that the rules should have been changed so that they fit around what you can do. So if you can't get what you want,you have to teach yourself to want what you can get.

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