Is Your Husband's Birthday Party a Good Idea?

i feel lik we've been drifting away like a i think we can pretty much assume now i will see consied my dad. O, i feel like we're growing apart. I would say, for me, there's an added level here, which is that, just on a personal level, i do not care for surprise parties. For me, or any kind of party is like looking forward to it. En, like planning it. I this is felling your elevant. No, no, no, i'm getting there. You you know, maybe both of you haven't been putting in the effort required to maintain this relationship. Ah, cause it still happens when that happens