Heart Word Bind, How Do I Learn to Trust Myself?

Cheryl Coontz: How do I learn to trust myself the way I did when I was a kid before I decided that other people knew better than me and gave them all the power? So, my question to you is, what other people and how did you give them power and how are you in your life giving them power? You write, how do I avoid falling back into that? Safe prison of doing what someone else thinks I should do. Who are these someone else's? And there's only one way to really genuinely counteract them; decide that they are not the voices who will determine what you do with your life.