First is this concern for others, then that depends. Then one begins to understand how one can keep one's mind on God in spite of pleasure and pain,. heat and cold, different sensory inputs. So these also will come, events, places, jobs, careers, so many things will come and go in our lives - we should be steady in the midst of that. Spirituality demands that, this is the groundwork of spirituality. One example I liked was, one saw doing Hindi, he gave this example, just imagine this little this little hut, there's a strange dim light in the hut... He wonders where is this light coming from? The man looks around and he sees near the