You Don't Have to Choose Between Them, or Them or Both

I was pilloried in quite an extraordinary way. I was making the claim that governments should hand over unwilling women to undesirable, monogamous men just to enforce monogamy. But really what ant was, well, one of the reasons for marriage, apart from the fact that two, two parent families, are clearly much better for children when with the father. There is that societies that allow unregulated polygamy, r that degenerate into that, are invariably rife with extraordinarily high levels of violence. And so to deny the possibility that people are able to combine these two things is a self-fulfilling prophecy. People have no idea that's even an option, even though lots of men are looking for