The goal here is connection. And if we're like holding back because our spouse is supposed to give it to us, that's not a connection. If we're using masturbation as a way to punish or disconnect from our spouse,. That's not a problem. In secret. Or doing it instead of because sex with your spouse is too vulnerable and turning away from intimacy and connection. I love being able to come together as partners and talk about what masturbation might look like in your marriage. Even if your spouse doesn't agree.
Many of us have received the conditioning that men are typically the sexual ones in a relationship and that they have an insatiable sexual need that has to be satisfied. To dive into this topic, I’m talking to sex coach Amanda Louder, host of the Sex for Saints podcast.
Hear why we have to reframe the belief that your spouse should fulfill your sexual needs. Amanda is sharing where this belief comes from, what you miss out on when you believe this messaging, and her top tips for what actually creates the best, most fulfilling sexual relationship.
Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.sarabrewer.com/blog/spouse-fulfill-sexual-needs-amanda-louder