You Feel Lonely, Because They Don't Care About You

"In a family, momdad and children, everybody gets attention all the time," he says. "That's why everybody feels like they're part of the family." But in big schools or companies, many times you feel invisible, writes Obama. He adds: "They only care about you for what you can do, right? If you're at a job and you're lazy, they won't care about you very long"