Relationships That Need a Break Up

We don't need to harbour grudges against us because the relationship that we were in didn't work out, says Lu. Sometimes we learn more by going through a break up than we do from the relationship itself. The break up forces us to come back to earth. It exposes our wounds. And if we're willing to gain perspective, to be honest about what a break up is, then we get to heal those wounds and move forward. If you want to arrive at the closure, you deserve why not carve out some time, maybe even with a pen and some paper, and revisit your previous relationship?