In therapy this is all part of the process of of getting back to it's so easy to come up with a justification or explanation or rationalization for what you think, feel and believe. But that may not actually be the true motivation for it. So in this instance, that's what happens. Motivation everig thous. It happens in street. Opestemology is what happens in deep canvassing. You patiently sit with someone in a way that allows them to introspect and get past that line in the peked toast moment. And i find it beautiful that the toast is a really good way to get into that conversation without having to start with some setal coline and s