How to Support My Friends in Rebuilding Their Relationship With My Partner?

i think that she needs to have a conversation with her friends about, i am working so hard right now on my relationship with my partner. And here is what i need from you. You will come to whatever conclusion you come to, but know that if you trust me as a person, that i am making choices that make sense for me. It's also just, strategically, the more the friends kind of get polarized around he's terrible, she may feel like she has to advocate for him to kind of balance things out. So then she may be saying things in defence of her husband that actually don't reflect where she is in her healing,. But she just feels like she must back him