How Long Does It Take to Get Over a Breakup?

We sometimes over invest in the sense we bank everything on this one person. So when the relationship breaks down, it feels as if we are broken too. It takes as long as it's going to take what we can do to help us with the process of getting over a breakup. If we allow us to feel our feelings without judging us, if we let feeling surface and we let them pass, then regardless of what hurts that we've had in the past or what has happened in the relationship, we're going to come out the other side of that.