Stonewall Jackson's Letters to His Wife

I don't think people think that the stoic ideal of apothea is not to think, yes, I'm actually do feel emotions, but then go back to normal. Right. So like a, so let yourself get carried away in the moment. Scream and yell enjoy when you win the battle. But then when you're done, don't feel yourself into thinking that you've won the war or that you can ride your coattails for the rest of the campaign because of this one victory. And as you're screaming and yelling enjoy, don't let yourself get out of control and know that, know that this is only a battle.