Sexual Abuse in the Church

"You have all sorts of animal impulses, but you haven't fully learned how to control them," he says. "At this stage you're just kind of suppressing them, and you're denying that they even exist." In order to fit in socially, one must fit in and be liked at this stage,. Therefore, you must be nice, pleasant and accommodating. You must also present an outward appearance of cleanliness and orderliness... Even though on the inside you can be a total mess".