Is There an Alternative to the De Programming?

It seems igea, this this idea of exit counselling or at least this basic approach seemed to largely replace it. Should we maybe do something more like counselling and in what we of now as intervention with a family member were worried about? Or should we kidnap them with the aid of some sort of third party a? It seems certainly, from an legal and moral standpoint, there's only one direction you should go in. Reminds me of some other stuff i was reading about, the scared straight programmes,. that, of course, were quite big, what i expect, in the nineties.