Is It Good to Take a Week Off in Your Relationship?

There are, you know, scriptures where talks about a new heaven and a new earth. But i don't knowthiet, i think we get new heavenly. Some one said it good to take a break in your relationship for a week or so to discern separately with god about if you want to get married to this person. We took a couple of days because i was like, i really need to sit with the lord endlighten to sern. Is this really whom i want to marry? I don't know, it's funny telling that, you know that, but it's funny talking about that. A mat chandler said this in mingling of souls, he said