I think when you authentically care about your students. You don't have to try to be human. And so just not giving them a reason to be afraid like I, I think every teacher has a story about a student who sent a picture from the ER or texted after they got in a car wreck on the way to class. Or there was a tweet that went viral some time ago about someone, it was a Colby college professor whose student was like trapped in their dorm room because there was a very large bug between them in the door and she couldn't get out"