Every few points of stress are able to withstand the test of time. Treat every hug like it could be your last. Looking presentable is a matter of self-respect. When you take yourself seriously, the world will follow suit. The Beatles were right. All you need is love.
Every year on my birthday (January 5), I like to conduct some interesting exercise that will push me to grow in a new way. This year, I asked a number of 90-year-olds a simple question: "If you could speak your 32-year-old self, what advice would you give?"
The responses were...incredible. They range from fun, playful, and witty to deeply moving. I'd encourage you to read through them with your loved ones and reflect on those that hit you the hardest.