How to Play Good Style or Bad Style?

I wouldn't be happy I'm not playing first of all. So what are those things like style playing winning. What's the most important of those three things? And I've experienced all of those so. Yeah yeah I'm just interested because I know what they are for me. This is the thing like this is one of my strengths water one of my biggest weaknesses is my competitiveness so I want to play every game. When I don't play and I'm not good at hiding that. The sessions when actually you're just going hard like you've always done maybe a little bit harder but. It was fine when you're you know first choice and getting picked they loved it but then as