The more demands that jobs or dating profiles put on us, the more we try to live up to them. And then what ends up happening, as you lose yourself in the process, because you're trying so hard to become this thing. 20 hours a chapter. That sounds rough. And then failing on top of that. Caue, you got to be like a good human beng. You've got to take care of yourself. Got responsibility. Rie aus, now, i got to be this, and i got toBe this, andi got to beThis,. Right? The problem is that the world doesn't make us think that way. It's no better for