Don't Wait for Something to Be a Problem

"I wish I would have been more established in my routines," says Larry. "They're not the thing that fixes you, but they're the scaffolding that you build your success on." When tempted to take an affair, confess it before it becomes a mistake and talk about it with someone who can help him get past those barriers. If he's never opened up or if his wife doesn't even know what is going on, it's time for him to open up.