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The Secret to Making Friends as an Adult

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

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Making Friends - The Beautiful Mess Effect

When it comes to making friends, people think the people that are good at making friends are really cool or really smart. One of the best ways to affirm another person is to get really vulnerable in front of them. We assume overt displays of our own weaknesses would make potential bastis avoid us like the plague. Our messiness is far more beautiful to potential friends than we think.

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