Relationships That Lack Boundaries

If we set boundaries in ways that are petty or not alined with our values, that's when guilt is more likely to arise. When you have healthy reasons for why you're setting the boundary, then you can feel justified in your responses. Relationships that lack boundaries often harbor resentments. These resentments arise because one or both parties aren't getting their needs met in healthy ways. Resentment will diminish the quality of your relationships and in some instances, will destroy them overtime.