10 Predictors of a Bad Romantic Relationship Explained
The Virtual Couch
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The Importance of Being Present
If he says, I can't do this anymore, her saying, yeah, you can sounds motivational. But in reality it's saying, no, you're wrong, I don't believe you. And that doesn't make us feel heard or understood. So the questions would be, man, tell me what that feels like. Why do you feel like you can’t do this anymore? Maybe on your train of thought, help me understand because we want to be heard and understood. Then that pillar four is her then leaning in, being present, not going into a victim mentality. She might say, that is hard and I appreciate you sharing that. And I'm here for you
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