The third guide line focus on the trade off. The more we think about what we are giving up when we say yes to someone, the easier it is to say no. We can't a graceful nowe grows out of a clear but unstated calculation of the trade-off. Make your peace with the fact that saying no often requires trading popularity for respect. When you say no there is usually a short term impact on the relationship.

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